It's not your job to save people from themselves. You can't expect them to change for YOU. Unless they decide to change for their own sake, you'll be stuck in a whirlpool.
It's human nature to be there for one another but not to the point where we let people become dependent on us for their own happiness or well-being.
If you want to change your partner, chances are they're not the one for you. If they don't want to change, they won't change.
People won't change for you or me. They change for themselves.
That's why, don't feel guilty for wanting your loved ones to change and then you take the responsibility to change them. This will drain you and lead you to disappointment and heartbreak.
You can't save them. You are not responsible for where their actions may lead.. But you can still show support and encouragement. You can still love them anyways.
#Abdullah